Trying to heal from narcissistic abuse by talking and journaling doesn’t work. How do I know that? Because I’ve written this entire blog trying to heal from narcissist abuse, I’ve journaled, I’ve talked about it all day long every day, and I tried that for years.
The reason it doesn’t work is because you can’t sort this out on a conscious level. The harder you try to sort it out with your conscious mind, the less it works. What I’ve come to understand as an Emotion and Body Code practitioner is that my narcissistic mother is a fool. She’s always been a fool, and she’s a disaster of a human being.
Narcissistic mothers don’t see their children a little living, breathing human beings.
They see them as objects and tools they can use to further whatever their twisted agenda may be.
Narcissistic mothers don’t understand this one very true fact. We don’t come from our parents; we come through them. We are sent here from the universe, and a mother’s womb is the vessel.
So if this vessel is broken and damaged beyond repair, you don’t stick around trying to fix it. You crashed landed here for a reason, and it’s not to fix a used up broken vessel. It’s not your job or your duty to fix her. You didn’t create the vessel, and you didn’t break it, so how could you possibly fix it?
I know she loves to blame you and make it your fault that she is broken, but someone damaged her long before you were sent to this world.
You were sent here to even the score, and I’ve found a way for you to do just that.
I tried journaling to heal from narcissistic abuse but I still wasn’t able to sort it all out.
A narcissistic mother takes a perfect, lovable, joyful child and tries to recreate a being she doesn’t understand in her own perversely twisted and flawed image.
You were sent here as a perfect little being, and she does everything in her power to corrupt and destroy that.
The audacity is what’s astonishing.
The narcissistic mother doesn’t see her children as a gift from above; she sees them as property; she sees them as objects. Her wish is to create a human being just like herself, and unfortunately for her, that’s not how the universe works. There are no copies. Trying to make your child just like you is the ultimate mistake, and it never works.
She’s a fool, and she will die that way.
Talking about narcissistic abuse doesn’t work.
What she’s done is implanted all these negative feelings you have about yourself deep into your subconscious. The more you try to come to terms with it on a conscious level, the more the subconscious becomes less engaged.
The subconscious mind controls 95% of all actions and behaviors, so now you begin to understand why this can’t be fixed on a conscious level. The conscious mind has very little to do with what you’re experiencing.
Being abused by a narcissistic parent leaves imprints on the subconscious mind that forms and controls all the beliefs you have about yourself. When I got into life coaching, it was a great experience, and I’m glad I have the credentials, but I quickly realized it wasn’t enough.
Life coaching takes a really long time; traditional therapy takes a really long time because it’s all being done on a conscious level.
By ‘really long time,’ I mean four to seven years. If you’re like me, then you’ve already tried some of these things. I’ve been trying to heal from narcissistic abuse my entire adult life. That’s over twenty years of searching for answers and the first fifteen years don’t even count because I had no idea what I was trying to heal from.
Then (because the universe is with me), I found Dr Bradley Nelson . He is the creator of The Emotion Code using muscle testing.
What is the definition of The Emotion Code ?
The Emotion Code – is a energy healing technique that helps us to identify and literally release trapped emotions-which are harmful emotional energies from negative past events. Trapped emotions can cause depression, anxiety, they can block people from love and happiness and make them feel disconnected from others. And because trapped emotions are made of energy, just like the rest of the body, they exert an influence on the physical tissues and can cause acute pain and even cancer.
To do this, the Emotion Code combines 2 important elements: the modern technology of therapeutic magnets and the Ancient principles of Chinese Medicine. A magnet acts as a powerful carrier for the practitioner’s intention to release the emotion. If that magnetically charged intention energy is placed into the body via the Governing Meridian (a major energy channel in the acupuncture system), it is blasted through the body instantly and releases the emotion!
One of the best parts of the Emotion Code is removing the Heart Wall. We estimate that 93% of the human population have a literal wall around the heart made of multiple layers of trapped emotional energy. The Heart-Wall is created by the subconscious mind in order to protect the heart from grievous injury, and it’s a good thing we have this protective mechanism when we need it. The problem is that having a Heart-Wall is like living in a bomb shelter- it’s nice to have its protection while the bombs are falling, but if you have it forever you’ll end up feeling disconnected and unfulfilled!
Releasing trapped emotions makes conditions right for the body to heal physically, and emotional difficulties often disappear or become much easier to deal with.
The subconscious mind is the ultra intelligent computer system of the body; it knows just what you need to do to be healthy and happy.
I use the the Emotion Code to ask specific questions and muscle testing (kinesiology) to get answers from the subconscious about trapped emotions that need to be cleared.
And I’m thrilled to tell you that I have been a practitioner about 3 years and I give away free sessions, so please join my email list, so I have a way to connect with you.